Everytime I fought with my closed ones really badly… I got hurt equally thinking my relationships are getting spoiled… Everytime things start getting better I feel happy… But I am not exactly sure if people forgive others or they actually tend to forget the harsh times??
Probably once things start getting better to a point people tend to forget the times which were cruel enough to bring down all your faith…
I feel it is more of what people want out of life.. Each one of us want happier times… When we reach the peak of bad times we have to reset things…. Sometimes it is a conscious effort and sometimes it is an automatic reset… People just forget harsh times as a matter of fact…
They may not forgive all… but they tend to forget, after all for’get’ comes along with for’give’ (until u give how do u get or vice versa )..
Last few months had been such times for me when I chose to keep quiet on things and just watch over unique ways in which people(including me) react to situations… I figured there is a cycle of events that happen in life.. some situations in my life which turned out harsh on me are repeating in some other’s lives now… and each one of us do get our share of good and bad times… I tried to view the situations from a third person perspective irrespective of whether I or someone else is the subject… Figured out its only when you become more of an observer of your own doings is when you act sensibly. It may probably be difficult to forgive or forget during your harsh times but it is more difficult to be a cautious observer… It is then forgiving/forgetting becomes easy for us. We tend to become better human beings… We walk on the paths that take us out of this cycle similar situations haunting us again and again..
I want to come out of this cycle… Want a permanent solution to my pain points… Guess I need to come back to senses and observe more before I speak
Forgive me/Forget it if I bored you… Just ponder over the thought if u find it interesting
Have a good day people…
