It is a recent bollywood release’s title. Not sure if how many viewers it attracted but it definitely raises a Big Question in our heads. I read this movie reviews and the interviews by the actors of the movie.. I could see one message very strongly… There is nothing called Absolute Right or Absolute Wrong. The term is relative and varies from person to person.
It is perfectly Okay for each one of us to have our own versions of Right/Wrong on a situation.
It is not Okay to force one’s decision of Right/Wrong on someone else
It is perfectly Okay for each one of us to disagree with each other on any situation.
It is not Okay for each one of us to pass our judgments on other’s behaviors.
It is perfectly Okay for each one of us to state our diverse feelings and opinions on any situation.
It is not Okay for each one of us to disrespect/dishonor someone on the context of having differing opinions on a particular subject/situation.
As adults very commonly we tend to pass on judgment on others on our context of Right/Wrong.
We forget that each one of us have capability to view the same situation through various perceptions. We tend to guide people to follow our way or look through our perception. We forget that it is not possible. We forget each one of us are unique in one way or other, how can we all think alike. We cannot. That’s how Human beings are designed by that Almighty. We forget that he gave each one of us a unique set of strengths and weaknesses and a unique way to lead our lives.
It is okay to have discussions around a topic… It is not Okay however to deny to disagree on the same. We all need to learn respecting our mutual disagreements also. Friends can disagree on various subjects but if those disagreements become a barrier in their friendship it’s definitely not okay. We can hurt others unknowingly. It’s okay until we are unaware of it. But once realized it’s not okay to ignore it.
We need to learn healing the hurt hearts. Why do we make this so difficult and complicated?
Parents try to influence their kids decisions fearing their incapability to take a Right decision/Kids feel parents lack of understanding of their situations and hence a rebellious attitude
Boss feels that he is always RIGHT/Employee feels Boss can never be RIGHT
I believe that as adults each one of us should have complete freedom to make our choices and no one of us should be forcing ourselves on others. We can try to convince/influence but we cannot force…
Our disagreements however should not break our relationships… It hurts when people go away on mere disagreements over few subjects. Why is it so difficult for us to be together amidst disagreements? Why our love /our relation do rests on our agreements/disagreements over few opinions/decisions? Why are our relationships with people based on these terms and conditions?
Let us all give a fresh look to those situations where we tried to break our relationships on the mere difference of few opinions? It is okay to commit mistakes and learn from them. Why do we try to stop ourselves from experimenting? I feel if it’s not a life threatening situation sometimes it is okay to commit mistakes and take a stand on it. If we realize we have done a mistake we should learn from it and move forward. Mistakes do happen. However once realized no Mistake is bigger than LIFE… We should learn to let go of some Mistakes as long as we learn our lessons… Let us focus on learning through experiences and not mourning over the mistakes committed…
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