He he he… you must be thinking ahhh one more pros and cons lecture on this endless debate… But really have you never debated on this??? Time and again this question keeps comint up which one is better and why???????
Those unlimited number of advantages and disadvantages of each of them start coming in…..
Its like asking whether Bubble Sort is good or Selection Sort is good to sort an array…. Man both are equally good choose the one that appeals to you…….
Same is true with Marriage….
I guess what matters the most is the second word of the two “MARRIAGE”…. Marriage is a just another way of giving a promise to your partner that u will be with each other through thick and thin. That you will love each other for being the individual they are. That you will support each other all through your life time… After all all of us need some one to be with us all life… Its very difficult to lead this life all alone………
Different people may have different views and likings to each of the process.. I would say choose a process which appeals most to you and simultaneously lets u not hurt the ones important to you…. You can take consensus from your loved ones while making such a decision… …..their opinion might or might not help…. I would just say never let down the ones important to you…. Always try to not to hurt them…. However at the end of the day what matters is how strongly u as an individual make a decision for your life..
After all we all are humans and mistakes might happen. What you feel is right today may not be right tomorrow. So guys rather than giving importance to the process of finding a life partner focus on the selection of the right partner for you…. Cause if that selection is wrong it may cost you a lot later……
There are still inhibitions from older generations about love marriages in Indian Society but I guess that’s a passing phase and sooner or later everyone will realize that they are pros and cons in each of the process…
So lets just get this basic funda in our head….. MARRIAGE is the important decision… Love or Arrange are just the two different methods….
I guess its high time we all should realize that what is important is making a right decision about choosing your life partner…. Rather than the process of choosing your life partner…
Do I make any sense?????? Think on it….
3 comments:
I will agree with you comments ...
Nice start with "he he"...lols..
would like to put a common phrase "You want to commit suicide or get killed?"
hope you can create an analogy of this with the topic.
I think for you "It is the time".
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